Showing posts with label Awareness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Awareness. Show all posts

If Overthinking Is Your Habit, You’ve Judged Yourself Too Much



We are all victims of overthinking. For some of us it can be a fleeting thought but for many of us it can cause real damage in our perception of ourselves, others and the world around us.
Overthinking is an epidemic stemming from our tendency to compare ourselves to others; feeling inadequate and focusing too much on negative aspects of situations. In essence, it’s our judgemental thought patterns that create this world in our mind – a world of low self-worth and disconnect with our true self.

How Overthinking and Self-Judgement Are Connected


As humans, we are capable of deep, critical thinking about many subjects. If our mental health isn’t always healthy, we tend to judge ourselves and the relationship we have with everything. This causes us to hone in on a narrow idea of who we are. We’re too fat, too old, unsuccessful, unassertive, not passionate enough – and the worst one of all: not good enough.
For example, if you have feelings of self-doubt about your ability to be successful, then this seed of thought can affect all areas of your life such as career, goals and dreams, relationships and friendships. Overthinking the lack of success and your ability to achieve it leads to more self-judgement. When opportunities arise in life like the perfect job interview or the perfect love, you end up sabotaging your potential through the act of overthinking your low worth and inability to succeed.
In essence, it can be a vicious cycle where overthinking leads to self-criticising, which in turn, leads to more overthinking.

To Stop Judging Ourselves We Need To Stop Judging Others

Judging others is just the start. If we have the ability to judge others based on our preconceived ideas and prejudices, then we have the ability to judge ourselves but with much harsher consequences. This inevitably leads to the overthinking we’re so familiar with.
Training ourselves not to judge others is the first step. Look at these two people – what judgemental thoughts arise when you look at them?


Is the well-dressed, slim person successful but the over-weight person lazy or unsuccessful? Neither are necessarily true. It can be shocking what assumptions we make based on first perceptions but it’s these that are the basis of our own self-judgement.
The art of taking in the whole view rather than making a stern, often wrong, decision on something is often practised by Buddhists. Mediation teaches us to not judge our thoughts but to note them and let them go on their merry way. Just observing a simple object can help identify our way of making judgements.

Try with a strawberry – what conclusions to do get from looking at it? Ask yourself why you make these assumptions.
Move on to people – watch people when you’re out and about. See what assumptions you make about them and their lives – why do you have these views?
Finally try this on the judgements you make on yourself and question whether your perceptions are really just illusions you create.
By doing this, you can start to lessen your tendency to overthink. Once negative thoughts about yourself start to build up, you are in a better position to notice and understand them. But more importantly, stop them in their tracks.
So, don’t beat yourself up for judging yourself. Realise that your perceptions can be based on false views and assumptions. Having the right mindset is the key to creating happiness in yourself – free of unnecessary worry and overthinking and building a space of non-judgement. Give yourself a break.

100 Small Changes You Can Make To Improve Your Health

Not every change you make to live a healthier lifestyle has to be drastic. Many people go balls to the wall and cut out all their carbs or go from never running to training for a marathon.
The problem? Most realize how difficult such a drastic change can be and bail on their goal.

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It’s better to take baby steps on your quest to build a healthier, stronger version of yourself. Pick one or two of the changes below and focus on those. Once you’re comfortable with the changes you made, pick up a few more.
1. Cut out soda.
2. Cut out juices.
3. Drink more water (8 8-oz cups per day).
4. Walk to work if distance permits.
5. Get a gym membership.
6. Come up with a workout plan that involves hitting the gym at least 3x a week.
7. Buy fruit instead of cookies and donuts.
8. Eat more vegetables. The fiber and nutrients will keep you full and prevent overeating.
9. Consume 25g fiber per day if you are female, 38g for males.
10. Drink less coffee so that you do not rely on caffeine.
11. Get 8-10 hours of sleep.
12. Go on a run at least once a week.
13. Read a blog on bettering your health and/or fitness at least once a week.
14. Plan your meals ahead of time so that you don’t give in to cravings when come meal time.
15. Purge your pantry of all junk (and no, not by eating it).
16. Try cooking healthy recipe instead of eating out.
17. Talk to someone new at the gym every week. Making friends will make you enjoy your time there and want to return.
18. Buy egg whites instead of only whole eggs.
19. Try turkey bacon instead of pork bacon (I eat both depending on the occasion).
20. Keep an exercise log so you can see that you are making progress.
21. Invest in healthier snack foods such as nuts, fruit, snap peas, baby carrots, etc.
22. Set a goal and don’t stop until it’s achieved.
23. Set baby goals with corresponding rewards to encourage you along the way.
24. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, whether that be talking to a fit friend or hiring a fitness professional.
25. Understand your body. Figure out the number of calories you can consume daily to maintain, gain, or lose weight.
26. Avoid drinking to get drunk except on special occasions (it really shouldn’t be an end-of-the-week habit).
27. That said, restrict yourself to 1-2 alcoholic beverages when you do drink casually.
28. Increase your protein intake. It will keep you full and promote recovery from exercise.
29. Take a multivitamin. Most of us do not get the essential micronutrients we need day to day.
30. Take a fish oil supplement. Omega-3’s are essential for a strong heart.
31. Go on walks after eating large meals.
32. Wake up an hour earlier (given you slept enough hours) and get moving. You’ll be more productive if you start the day off with a little exercise.
33. Avoid movie theatre popcorn if you can. That stuff is dangerous. A large bucket can contain over 1000 calories easily.
34. Find and start a fitness program.
35. If you smoke, stop.
36. Pick up a sport you want to try.
37. Re-pick up a sport you stopped participating in.
38. Join health initiatives and challenges at the workplace.
39. If you’ve been sitting for over an hour, get up and walk around — like right now if it applies.
40. Take your dog on a walk! If you have one of course. The exercise isn’t just for your pup.
41. Vacuum the house. It’ll get you moving and can burn up to 300 calories per hour!
42. Avoid artificial sweeteners. If you need one, try Stevia.
43. Drink skim milk instead of whole milk.
44. Incorporate a resistance training routine instead of only performing cardio. It promotes strong bones and faster metabolism.
45. Drain the bacon grease before frying your eggs!
46. If you are eat a salad, avoid dousing it in dressing. A single serving of ranch dressing can be up to 150 calories.
47. Trouble sleeping through the night? Decrease caffeine intake. Especially within 5 hours of bedtime.
48. Read a book. Stimulating your mind promotes physical health more than you know.
49. Choose baked chips or veggie chips instead of regular ones.
50. Avoid deep fried foods. Baked or grilled versions are better choices.
51. Buy fresh veggies over canned or frozen ones if possible.
52. Do not drink Fireball. Stuff has antifreeze in it.
53. When eating out, pick a healthier option. It’ll taste better than you expect.
54. Write your thoughts out every once in awhile. Keep a diary. Write an article. It helps relieve stress.
55. Talking to people also relieves stress. Get out there and be social. Don’t hold things in.
56. Choose leaner meats for your sandwiches and meals.
57. Don’t skip meals too often. Your body needs food for energy.
58. Start a running or workout group amongst your friends and/or colleagues.
59. Listen to music you enjoy. It soothes.
60. Buy whole grain breads and pastas over instead of white.
61. Order brown rice instead of white rice at Chinese restaurants.
62. When your family or workplace orders donuts and you can’t resist,only take one.
63. Use low or non-fat versions of sauces. Those tiny little packets of Chick-Fil-A Sauce have 140 calories!
64. Rely less on Ibuprofen for hangovers and more on water and hydration.
65. Find a workout buddy! The extra accountability will keep you, well, accountable.
66. Take naps when exhausted instead of chugging more caffeine. Listening to your body goes a long way.
67. Substitute unsweetened apple sauce for butter when baking.
68. Sweeten with Stevia instead of sugar when baking. A 1:1 ratio works well.
69. Take a green drink supplement if you don’t get a wide range of vegetables and fruits daily.
70. Meditate. Occasionally taking a moment of silence to be inside your own mind and simply think can promote mental health and relaxation.
71. Eat until satisfied, not full.
72. Prep meals over the weekend so that you have healthy and readily available options throughout the week.
73. Snack less and eat more filling meals.
74. Do mini workouts during commercial breaks. Push ups, sit ups, crunches, planks, and squats are all prime candidates.
75. If pressed for time in the gym, perform compound movements that hit large numbers of muscles such as squats and pullups.
76. Wait 10 minutes after eating meals to make sure you’re actually still hungry before going for a post-meal snack. It takes time for your brain to catch up to your belly sometimes.
77. Read food labels. Knowing how much protein, fat, and carbs you’re consuming is key to understanding your nutrition.
78. If the nutrition label indicates any trans-fats, do not eat that food. Trans-fats clog your arteries.
79. Learn to refuse unhealthy foods when they are offered to you. Learning to say no is a good lesson to learn for every aspect of life. You can’t make everyone happy.
80. Take the stairs instead of the elevator.
81. Get off the internet sometimes and go outside. We spend too much time on Facebook and Twitter and not enough moving around.
82. Add lemon to your water. It aids digestion by clearing the digestive tract.
83. Stretch tight or sore muscles. Many of us have become immobile with age and lack of exercise. Stretching can get you moving and functioning properly again.
84. Use non-stick spray instead of butter and oil when pan-frying foods.
85. Drink your coffee black. Sugar and creamer add unnecessary calories and really add up over time if you’re a coffee drinker.
86. Consume 1 tbsp of Apple Cider Vinegar daily to prevent heartburn and acid reflux.
87. Get up to get the remote instead of asking for it to be passed to your lazy bum.
88. Incorporate a day to go hiking on your vacations. Hiking can burn anywhere from 300 to 600 calories per hour.
89. Sign up for a 5k or 10k. You’re more likely to do something if you pay for it. This also provides a sense of urgency because you can’t push back the date.
90. Stop waiting and take out the garbage before it overflows. Just another way to get moving. You’ll also get that bonus sense of accomplishment that comes with having a nice, clean, empty trash can (or is that just me?).
91. Request no butter and no oil at restaurants. Excess fats really pack on the calories.
92. Pass on the fries. They are high carb and high fat, which means extra high calorie. Save them for cheat meals.
93. Get some sun. Vitamin D deficiency is more common now than ever. Excess sun can be detrimental to your skin health, but most people don’t get enough.
94. Perform both high intensity and low-intensity exercises — anything from walking to burpees. This ensures that your body becomes efficient using both aerobic and anaerobic energy systems.
95. Hit the pool! Swimming for fitness burns more calories than running. Don’t believe me? Google Michael Phelps’ 12,000 calorie diet.
96. Pace during long phone calls. It may sound silly, but the extra steps really add up. I’ve paced over 1500 steps back and forth while talking on the phone. That’s almost an entire mile!
97. Load up a quarter to half of your dinner plate with veggies. Portion control helps prevent overeating.
98. Stop thinking and start doing. If you’re “thinking about” getting in shape or starting a program, JUST DO IT.
99. Use cheat meals instead of cheat days. A full day of cheating can throw off your progress pretty badly if you can eat a large enough amount of food. It’s difficult to do this with a single cheat meal though.
100. At Chipotle, get a bowl instead of the burrito.

Puffer: Not just a fish


If you have never tried this swollen but decent looking fish yet, probably you are lucky enough and would better stay away from it!

The skin and visceral organs of puffer fish carry acute toxic substances, namely TTX (Tetrodotoxin) and STX (Staxitoxin). Scientists have shown that these toxins are about 1200 times more lethal than Cyanide, having strong resistance against heat.

Very small amount of these toxins may cause the death of a human being.

For avoiding such dangers, removal of poisonous visceral organs and skins of puffer fish, locally known as Patka fish, should be ensured by adopting proper processing techniques.

So, besides raising public awareness, the cultivation and marketing of puffer fish should be prohibited throughout the country.

In Bangladesh, there have been a number of reported deaths related to consumption of this deadly fish.


People who live longer than 24 hours typically survive, although possibly after a coma lasting several days, according to Wikipedia.

To the Japanese, this fish is a delicacy. However, they ensure it is safe to consume by adopting proper processing techniques. But local consumers rarely follow the methods.

So, it is advisable to leave the fish alone and not invite death!

Bad habits that can hurt your brain


Sleep loss, junk food, inactivity — these things and more can take a toll on your brain health. Here are some issues to pay attention if you would like to keep your brain healthy.

You miss out on sleep

Smoking and its harmful impact among students


The prevalence of smoking especially among the students of the private universities is alarming. On a recent survey of students of two top ranking private universities, it was found that there is a high prevalence of smoking among students. However there is also a great movement among these students towards quitting smoking.